Day 71 of 90 · Connection

Why friends are a health habit

“Seeing friends used to feel like a treat. Now I treat it like part of staying well.” — Kai

Kai, Winter Arc Day 71

Today's action · 10 min

Write down three people who make you feel good after you see them, and put one catch-up in your calendar for the next two weeks.

Why it works

A meta-analysis of 148 studies by Holt-Lunstad, Smith and Layton found that people with stronger social relationships had a 50% greater likelihood of survival over the study periods. These are associations, not proof of cause, but they suggest connection belongs alongside sleep and movement.

Source: Social Relationships and Mortality Risk: A Meta-analytic Review (Holt-Lunstad, Smith & Layton, 2010)

Go deeperHealthy Relationships: A Science-Backed Guide to Building Deep, Lasting Connections That Boost Mental Wellness →
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